Things to let go of before you tie the knot

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• Getting married means you will be with that one guy for the rest of your life, and you need to start thinking in twos. Plans will include ‘we’ instead of ‘I’ and some of those changes require major compromises. We’ve made the job easy for you and listed down 15 things you need to let go off before you tie the knot. You might want to take notes.

1.Detective work:
Getting in a marriage is a big commitment and if you can’t trust your partner, you need a rethink. Going through the phone and figuring out if your guy was in touch with any particular exes might have seemed okay earlier, but trust will make your marriage a smooth sail.

2.Clean up:
We mean this in a very literal sense. You need to let go of your messy habits or at least a few of them. Most guys are messy and more often than not they don’t clean up. So unless you wish to spend those Saturday offs cleaning the house, we suggest you limit the mess.

3.Self-importance:

Take a deep breath and let go of the notion that you are God’s gift to mankind. Once that’s done with, you’ll have an easier time compromising on things and putting up with post-marriage changes.

4.Let go of the extravagances:
Yes, it is absolutely okay to accept (even demand at times) extravagant treats for special days, but curb the greed. Look at the big picture and learn to appreciate the smaller things as that’s what will make a marriage work in the long run.
5.Detective work:
Getting in a marriage is a big commitment and if you can’t trust your partner, you need a rethink. Going through the phone and figuring out if your guy was in touch with any particular exes might have seemed okay earlier, but trust will make your marriage a smooth sail.
6.Filter the info: We all love our BFFs and those marathon conversations where we tell them about everything in our lives, right? Post marriage, you might want to filter some of that information. There are some things that are best shared between the two of you without getting in a third person.
7.Digging the past:
Whether you like it or hate it, the past helped shaped both of you so there is no point hating it or fighting about it. He secretly dated the girl you absolutely hate at work? Let it go.