Internet has made everything easier. From banking to shopping – you name
a requirement and chances are that there is an app for it. For dating
too, there are several apps available and many youngsters, these days,
can find a partner by simply swiping their smartphones. If you are
thinking of jumping on the ‘online dating’ bandwagon yourself, then
these tips will definitely come in handy.
1. Choose a good photo
Choose a photo that reveals how you look. You wouldn’t want a photo
taken in a dark place or with some over-the-top effects just to convey
that you are mysterious. A study published
said that your photo should see you wearing a genuine smile. A slight
tilt of the head could also enhance attractiveness. Women may wear
something red to boost their attractiveness.
2. Don’t just describe yourself; reveal what you are looking for
While your profile is meant to describe yourself and your interests,
use it to talk about what you are looking for too. Sometimes, a person
might be interested to talk to you because they match your requirement.
Saying something like ‘looking for a woman who prefers quiet time spent
by the sea, rather than a pub’ may draw more appropriate responses.
3. Ask open-ended questions
Before the two of you decide to go out on a date, it is likely that
you’ll do some online chatting. The more jovial conversation that you
have during this phase, the better are your chances of being able to go
on a date. During the initial phases, asking questions which have a
‘yes/no’ answer will lead to awkward silences. Instead, ask questions
like ‘How was your day?’ and ‘How was your school life like?’.
4. Make sure that your body language is right
Whether it is video chatting or a real date, body language can make
or break your chances. It is suggested that you make expressive hand
gestures, nod your head when the other person is speaking, sit upright
and smile. This will convey that you like the other person and increase
the probability of them agreeing to take the relationship further.
5. Be prepared for disaster
You might find someone nice through online dating, but chances of
finding someone not-so-nice isn’t bleak too. There is no guarantee that
your partner isn’t lying about their qualification, age or relationship
status. If these things happen and you are left with a bitter taste,
don’t blame online dating or give up hope. It is best that you treat the
event with indifference, and allow better things to happen to you.
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