Coolest 12 Ways To Bring The S/xy Back To Your Relationship

The couples that play together, stay together.

Whether you’ve been together for one year, or for 10, sometimes even the steamiest of relationships can start to feel a bit stale
. With the new year here, this is a great time to kick things up a notch. Add the s*xy back into your fun by trying something new—and get as wild as you dare.
Maybe it’s writing a dirty story and sending it to your partner or putting together a s*xy scavenger hunt to make things hot and heavy again. There’s even a subscription service that discreetly delivers fun and flirty romantic surprises to your door. And sometimes, the best way to get s*xy is as easy as simply relaxing.
Because of media influence, many of us have an exaggerated, stressful image of s*x, say Tina B. Tessina, Ph.D., psychotherapist and author of Money, Sex and Kids: Stop Fighting about the Three Things That Can Ruin Your Marriage. To have more fun, focus on having fun, instead of meeting a goal. Some s*x encounters go well, some don’t, so have a sense of humor. Spend more time giggling, talking and being silly and less time under pressure. A lighter attitude makes s/x more fun. And who doesn’t want that?