You’ve met an interesting guy and want to go on a date with him. The question is how do you make the first move without looking desperate or being rejected.
Well, the secret is in the way you ask him out. Here’s your guide to asking a guy out without him even knowing you are doing so.
1.Don’t be flirty
If you want to tease a guy into going on a date with you, avoid giving him the signs first by being flirty and then asking him out on a date. This may just creep him out if he’s not ready to make things formal. Instead ask him out casually to check out a new bar or restaurant that has opened. You’ll end up sitting there for a dinner or drink.2.Make yourself the focus
It may help if you make yourself the centre of attraction and focus on yourself. Tell him that you are going are going to grab a coffee today and he could join you if he likes. This is something a guy can rarely ever turn down if he’s interested. It is indirect yet casually exciting for a guy. Try it, it works
3.Invite him to join you
Keeping it simple and light is the key to asking a guy out without him knowing it! If you are running a few errands on a Sunday afternoon or simply renting a DVD, ask him to join you. That way you will end up doing something non-date-like and spending time together. It will also help you realise if you are comfortable around him and whether you would in fact want to go on a typical date with him.
4.Movie time
If there is a new movie in the theatre, bring up a light conversation and ask him if he would like to watch it. If he says yes, your job’s done! Buy tickets and head straight to the theatre
5.Tell him about how you love desserts
If not every guy, every girl loves desserts! Tell him you have a sudden craving for a chocolate cupcake or ice cream, and take our word for it; he’ll make sure he takes you out to get it. perfect way to spend time together, we think.
6.Ask him for help
If you are having trouble with understanding something at work and need some help, choose your prospective date to be your teacher! Discuss the trouble that you are having with him and ask him if he could help you. He surely won’t say no to a girl in distress, now would he?
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