7 Ways to deal with a boyfriend stealer

Have you encountered a situation where you’ve felt that you are losing your man to another woman? She could be his co-worker, neighbour, a new gym buddy or even one of your girlfriends.
While most believe that a man cannot be stolen unless he wants to be, it is important that you guard your relationship, especially if you love each other and see a great future together. Here’s how to deal with that someone who is trying to be a man-stealer.

1.Introduce yourself to her

The next time your partner tells you about this new girl he met at the gym and their bonding sessions post workout, or a female co-worker who wishes to go out for drinks post work, you can accompany them. This is the best way to check if the woman is trying to steal your man. Casually join them for a drink and cordially introduce yourself to her.That way she will know that he is already in a relationship.

2.Observe

If you feel that she really is a man-stealer, look out for small signs. Does she flirt with him? Does she frequently touch him while talking? If one of your girlfriends starts showing up at most of the places you are hanging out with your guy, keep a close watch and see how your partner reacts.

3.Be friendly

Who said dealing with the woman who hits on your man needs you to bring out your feline claws and begin a cat fight? Unless the situation is very bad, you can be friendly with her. This will reduce the awkwardness and you will also get a chance to know her.

4.Ignore

Until you don’t know what is going on, don’t point fingers at the woman, especially if she is one of your girlfriends. While it is important to safeguard your relationship, it is also essential to save your friendship. Try to ignore your instincts until any evidence suggests otherwise.

5.Talk to your partner

If you feel very insecure about your relationship, have a discussion with your partner. Talking it out will not only allay your fears, but also make your partner know how much you value him. However, make sure you don’t insinuate that he is responsible for egging her on.

6.Confront

If you re stuck in a situation where the woman doesn’t mend her ways and is becoming obsessed with your partner, there is no harm in confronting her. This doesn’t mean you get into a fight with her. However, you can clearly draw the boundaries and lay some ground rules if she still wants to interact with your partner.

7.Trust

No matter what you do, don’t lose trust in your partner. Never slyly check his mails or text messages or eavesdrop on his conversation. This will only drive him away and cause further problems.