While every man is different, there are certain things about a woman that will make any man stand up,
take notice, and make him decide he wants to get to know you on a deeper level.
If you want to win the right man’s heart, you need to know what it is that makes a man go from just
feeling casual about dating you to wanting and needing you on a deeper level. I’m going to take you
inside a man’s mind so you understand what it takes to trigger this kind of connection.
And I’m talking about a real man – one who is mature and grounded on a physical, mental, emotional,
and spiritual level. They are on a great path and open to growing on a deeply personal level. I’m
betting that’s exactly why you’re on this site: to find a quality kind of guy – a real man looking for a real
relationship.
So what does a mature, REAL man want in a woman?
1) A Real Man Wants A Woman Who Is Playful
There’s something that drives men wild and invites them into a deeper level of “connection” – play.
Men love to be active and to play. They were raised to express themselves and connect with those
around them through action.
Unfortunately, too many women seem to forget this and want to talk their way into a man’s heart. But
the fact is that men don’t “feel it” for you because of what you say. It’s not your words that make a man
attracted to you, it’s the experiences you create with him.
2) A Real Man Wants A Woman Who Is Independent Lots of women mistakenly believe that men are looking for a “weaker” woman who will make them feel
like they are smarter and more powerful.
A great guy isn’t intimidated by independence and success. What matters to a man is that a woman still
has space in her life for a great relationship and is grounded and present when she’s with him.
The best way to communicate this to a man is to stay busy in your own life and not suddenly make him
your world. Don’t drop your own interests, responsibilities, and friends just to be with him. And then,
when you are with him, really BE with him – have fun and give your attention to him and what you’re
doing together.
3) A Real Man Wants A Woman Who Is Emotionally Mature
A woman who has the maturity to not blame or criticize a man for what she’s feeling, but to share her
feelings in an honest and authentic way that helps a man better understand her will be attractive to
a man. How a woman handles her emotions is one of the most important things men look for when
deciding whether or not to get serious with a woman. If she lets her emotions get out of control, this is
a big red flag to him.
On the other hand, if she can present her feelings to him in a calm, non-dramatic manner, she will win
his respect and make him feel like she’s the kind of woman who will be a real partner to him. He’ll see
that she can handle things with a cool head rather than becoming a damsel in distress he has to rescue.
4) A Real Man Wants A Woman He’s Intensely Attracted To
Fact: Men aren’t as scared of commitment and relationships as they are scared of being in a relationship
with a woman where there is no passion and attraction.
A common way women accidentally kill the attraction men might be feeling is by either trying too hard
to get him to like you, or by acting like the relationship is too serious too soon.
Relax and let things happen naturally. Make sure you do and say things that interject fun and humor into
your relationship from the very start. There’s nothing more appealing to a man than a great woman
who knows how to relax and have fun.
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